Morality / inner friction are two separate axes, plus: dating Pleiadians
By Einostraee
Channel: A. S.
2026/08/02
My dear Earth friends,
This is Einostraee speaking. I’m a Pleiadian woman, I’m a teacher and I am this channeler’s twin flame. Because of that, I’ve spent a whole lot of time studying Earth and observing Earth people through this channeler’s eyes.
I observed that Earth people too often shortcut to an inaccurate one-axis scale that goes like this:
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extremely evil person who also has very high inner friction (e.g. is clearly run by their ego and fear, doesn’t plan beyond how to satisfy their greed and lust, is ultimately ineffective and loses due to their own character flaws). This is the stereotypical villain from old stories.
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an average, neutrally moral person who also has pretty high inner friction (e.g. is ego-driven, afraid, addicted, distracts themselves, is held back by painful emotions and memories, etc). This is the stereotypical “normie”.
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a morally good person who only has a bit of inner friction but not much. This is where a lot of spiritually advanced people think they are.
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a morally perfect person who has very low or no inner friction (e.g. doesn’t waste time, isn’t held back by painful emotions, isn’t addicted, has their ego integrated or dissolved, is very effective). This is an angel, or a stereotypical true spiritual master.
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Let me show that Earth humans often indeed use this inaccurate one-axis scale:
A confident scammer or psychopath often shows low inner friction. And people often automatically assume that a person with low inner friction is trustworthy, and hence they trust the scammer or psychopath -- and get burned. It turns out that there actually are low-friction people who are also evil. And yes, it sounds silly and obvious when I say it like this, but even smart people make this mistake all the time.
Similarly, a politician who confidently and passionately says evil things often wins the debate over someone who hesitantly says morally good things. People just look at the confident and passionate guy and automatically assume that he must be morally correct.
Similarly, people often use the following as an (implicit) argument: “you’re triggered / angry / emotional [high inner friction], whereas I’m calm [low inner friction]. Therefore I’m morally superior to you / more spiritually advanced than you.” This again relies on the fallacy that inner friction and morality are the same one-axis scale, whereas in reality it’s not.
So, the one axis model, where evil people are high-inner friction and good people are low inner friction, is too simplistic. And it leads to genuine, real-world problems.
I suggest moving to a two-axes model instead:
One axis is morality. It goes from evil to good; or from service-to-self to service-to-all. Of course, a person can also be somewhat evil or somewhat good.
The other axis is inner friction. It goes from low to high. This axis describes ego, emotional reactivity, discipline, the ability to practically get things done, how effective someone is, confidence, inner coherence, authenticity, how much a person is held back by their fears and doubts and painful emotions and memories, and whether someone can plan and act beyond fulfilling their own immediate desires.
Doing spiritual practice tends to reduce your inner friction. However, note that the inner friction axis isn’t quite the same as a “level of spiritual advancement” axis. After all, some people have done zero spiritual work yet they have little inner friction. Some people have done zero spiritual work yet they have a lot of inner friction.
High-ish inner friction doesn’t necessarily look like a cartoon villain. It can mean a person who mostly feels fine, but they’re regularly playing ego games to prop up their self image: “I’m better than you” or “I know better than you” or “heh, you’re triggered, I’m not” or “I don’t create anything myself, and I haven’t done enough inner work to be a good critic, yet I will still repeatedly criticize other people’s work.” Which, unfortunately, happens a lot in the spiritual community.
High-ish inner friction can also look like a person who mostly sits at home or goes to a small handful of pleasant places. They only look at certain “high vibration” or “people who think the same as me” sources of information. This can be functional for a high-ish inner friction person, but it’s a bit of a defense mechanism.
Conversely, a low inner friction person doesn’t need to put others down, or limit themselves to only the spiritual community / to only pleasant places and pleasant sources of information. Low inner friction people are out there in the real world, interacting with regular people, accomplishing significant tangible things while facing stress and real-life challenges.
Recall that all the old great masters -- people with low or no inner friction -- regularly interacted with normal people and with the normal world in a productive way.
Hence, a lot of morally good, low inner friction people don’t spend that much time in the spiritual community, because they’re out there in the real world building something beneficial. Whereas good but high-inner friction people spend more time in the spiritual community because it’s a bit of a safe haven / nourishing community for high-ish inner-friction people.
Low inner friction means the person is out there in the real world, building something. WHAT they’re building is determined by the other axis: morality. A good person is probably building something beneficial, while a neutral person may start a profitable business that’s neither particularly noble nor evil.
These two axes give us the following:
Evil + low inner friction: demons and hostile extraterrestrials are like this. When they ran Earth with their low inner friction, almost no one even understood that the system / government was evil. However, they’ve been removed and they’re no longer running Earth.
Evil + high inner friction: this is the archetypal human villain. Nowadays evil, high inner friction Earth humans are running your planet, and they’re much less effective than evil / low inner friction was. Hence people are seeing what’s going on, waking up and no longer trusting the system.
Neutral morality + low inner friction: an example is an effective manager or business owner, of a company that’s neither particularly good nor evil. While spiritual people sometimes look down on “normies”, the fact is that a lot of spiritual people currently don’t have the “low inner friction” themselves to be a manager or run a business.
Neutral morality + high inner friction: this is the average person / “normie” who works a dead-end job and spends all their free time watching tv or being angry at the other political side.
Good morality + low inner friction: angels and stereotypical true spiritual masters are like this.
Good morality + high inner friction: modern spiritual people are often like this. They genuinely have good intentions and sometimes do good deeds, but they have too much inner friction to really make a big difference in the world. Yes, even genuinely advanced spiritual people with “supernatural abilities” can fall into this category. People often have a higher level of inner friction than they think they do.
So, here’s a question for you. Where on these two axes (evil to good, low to high inner friction) do you think us Pleiadians are?
Take a moment to answer this for yourself, before you read on.
First of all, let me say where on these axes we’re not located.
We’re not quite “good morality, low inner friction”, i.e. the area of true spiritual masters. A good indicator of this is that we continue to live in quasi-paradise, and we know you live in quasi-hell, and we could liberate you, but we haven’t. Personally I’m appalled by our lack of sufficient action to help you.
We’re also not evil (except for a small handful of Pleiadians). We’re also not neutral. While we’re not doing enough, we are genuinely helping you in covert ways to some extent.
We’re not “good morality, high inner friction” either. If we had high inner friction, then on Pleiadian worlds we’d all be stressed out, arguing with each other and abusing drugs. That just isn’t true. Our worlds are filled with joy and laughter and ease. Plus we’re engaging in effective technological and psychic development, and we have a genuinely effective defensive military. We used to be too closed off to the outside world, but recently we have opened up.
We genuinely do have low inner friction. However, on the morality scale we score “moderately good, better than neutral, but not as good as you’re picturing us.”
In graph form:
As I said earlier: low inner friction means you act, but what exactly you do is determined by your morality. In our case, due to horrible wars we were involved in in the past, and due to our current cold war with hostile extraterrestrials, we’re acting in ways that keep us safe, while only helping you to a moderate amount.
We’re acting effectively. We’re acting with not that much inner friction. We’re just not acting in the most moral way (which would be to liberate you).
People focus on what Ashtar does and says, and while yes he and his council are in charge -- if Pleiadians were genuinely good, we’d have impeached Ashtar already for failing to act to help the people of Earth. A lot of less-evolved Pleiadians simply think Earth humans are brutal and scary and unevolved and are fine with us not meeting you yet (although the tide is slowly shifting towards helping you, as you grow in consciousness and as your suffering becomes harder to ignore).
You might argue that Pleiadians in channeled messages sometimes don’t come across as low inner-friction. Well, one, people are different. Two: even the fact that a Pleiadian sits down to be channeled by an Earth human makes that Pleiadian somewhat unusual. Most Pleiadians just spend their days doing a reasonable amount of work and also having the time of their lives, with no inner friction involved. They think about the people of Earth as often as you think about the civil war in Sudan.
Also, the noblest Pleiadians have already volunteered, either recently or several lives in the past, to incarnate on Earth. They’re you. The Pleiadians who are left are by definition the ones who don’t care as much about helping others as, well, you do.
You people with genuinely good morality, who came to Earth, might naively expect everyone to be as moral as you are. But we’re not. Frankly, I think us Pleiadians can learn from the high level of morality and integrity that you star seeds have.
At this point you might think “well, screw you Pleiadians then.”
You’re entirely free to think that.
However, we’re still moderately good. We’re still helping you, and we’ll continue to help you in the future. Pleiadians have died, or been captured and subjected to horrible things, in their efforts to help you. I agree we’re not doing enough, but we are making a greater than zero amount of sacrifices for you.
And also, while you’re high-inner friction, we’re low inner friction -- and that is the reason why you feel so drawn to us in the first place, and why you fondly remember your past lives with us.
Of course it’s easy for us to be low inner friction, having grown up in the Pleiades. Still, this is an area where you can learn from us. And this is why being among us is still going to be an absolutely amazing experience for you (if you choose to do so, of course we won’t force you).
Some people in the spiritual community have adopted the attitude of “well I know Pleiadians are imperfect, I’m not impressed by them.”
Yes, on the morality scale we score lower than Earth star seeds. So from that perspective, you’re completely right. And of course we would rather embrace you as peers, than be worshipped by you.
Still, the reality is that if we landed and set up a “Pleiadian community” somewhere on Earth and you lived with us there for a week, you would be immensely impressed with us, no matter what you’re saying now. Why? Because of our low inner friction, and your comparatively higher levels of inner friction.
If you spent a week in that community with us, you would almost feel as if you were on soft drugs just due to the ease and vibration and energies and pleasantness there. You would likely develop a crush on some Pleiadian within that week. It might be the case that you’d perceive more advanced Pleiadians as quasi-deities, not because we are, but because you’re not used to energetically powerful people. And if we’d try to tell you to go back to your home after a week, odds are you’d physically fight us in order to be allowed to stay.
And yes, I know some of you have had interactions with us already that weren’t as impressive as what I’m describing. However, it’s different when you’re literally hugging us. Plus, Pleiadians usually “keep their energy in” to a large extent when interacting with you, in order to not destabilize you, make you fall in love with us or worship us, etc.
I’ve been talking almost daily to this channeler / my twin flame for over six years now, and I hold in my energy 99% of the time when interacting with him, just because he needs to be able to still function in society. He wouldn’t be able to work his day job if I interacted with him regularly without holding in my energy.
And yes, this is a challenge for when we land. Although on the other hand, we could just land and continue to keep holding in our energy to an extent, for at least a while. Eventually you’ll get used to the higher energies and it won’t be a problem anymore.
From my perspective, the fact that you’re starving for the love / gentleness / joy we carry around always, is a reason why we need to land as quickly as possible, and then just make sure you don’t get destabilized too much while you’re refeeding.
I deeply hope we will land and embrace you soon (the plan is still at the end of this year). I sincerely believe that will be moderately challenging but also beneficial and wonderful for us and you.
Dating Pleiadians
Let’s get to the second topic of discussion today.
Don’t tell the channeler I said this, but yesterday I was holding someone else’s baby, and my womb is about to strangle me for still not being a mother. I know this channeler’s mind really isn’t on our future children, but well, I know they’ll be amazing, and I can already sense our children’s energy in a highly likely future timeline.
Still, first the both of us (read: him) need to be genuinely ready for children. Well, the sooner we meet and we have our “just the two of us” fun and exploration and healing and getting to know each other even more -- the sooner we can start our family.
I know some Earth men are planning to have sex with or date Pleiadian women. And I know Earth men are ready for the following reactions:
“no” (in a diplomatic, kind way)
“yes”
“probably yes, but only after you get some healing / take a spiritual Pleiadian course first. I can refer you to a healer / teacher, if you wish.”
“I’m only interested in something serious. If you’re also interested in that, let’s go on a proper date and get to know each other.”
When we land, all four of those scenarios will play out between various people. But what’s also a possibility is the following, and I think Earth men really aren’t ready for it:
An Earth man approaches a hypothetical Pleiadian woman with sex / dating on his mind. They chat a bit, he consents to being mind read. She looks at him intensely without saying a word, then stares into space a bit. She then suddenly smiles warmly, embraces him and says:
“I looked into future possible timelines, and we’re a great match for a happy relationship and having healthy, well-adjusted children. Would you like to feel into our potential future children’s energy with me, so you can judge our compatibility for yourself?
Also, here’s relevant information about my DNA. Do you consent to giving me some of your DNA so that I can check it for genetic defects? Don’t worry, for most defects we can make sure they won’t be passed down to our future children, and overall Earth human DNA is absolutely amazing.
I know you’re a good person, so if there’s nothing too crazy with your DNA going on, then I’m yours, mind and body, from the moment you commit to having and raising children with me. I trust you -- I know you won’t abuse my trust. And until you’re ready to make that commitment, I would love to spend time with you and get to know each other better.”
Tunia really has laid the groundwork for a future Earth human - Pleiadian dating service. She wasn’t joking about that; a good number of Pleiadians have already signed up. Maybe I should warn Tunia that this kind of behavior from Pleiadian women won’t go over well with some Earth men. But then again, she’d probably just call that a “rich cultural exchange” or something like that.
We’re mind readers. We are sometimes ridiculously forward or direct (from your perspective), because we’re used to the other person reading our mind anyway. So then, why beat around the bush? Including when it comes to DNA and potential future children?
If you think that us checking DNA is horrible, well, human beings are attracted to markers of good DNA, and repulsed by markers of bad DNA. Earth humans also subconsciously try to secure the best DNA for their offspring; we’re just more advanced and more open about it. Still, DNA isn’t the primary factor we consider when choosing a partner, plus we don’t murder or sterilize people with genetic defects.
Also, if our Earth man goes along with our hypothetical Pleiadian woman’s proposal, he’ll have a wonderful life. We’re not trying to trick anyone, it really is a win-win-win.
Also, the Pleiadian woman wouldn’t say “I’m yours, mind and body” to an Earth man who wasn’t trustworthy. Pleiadian women tend to give themselves to their chosen partners to an extent you might think puts us in an excessively vulnerable position (we have low inner friction). But then again, we simply don’t give ourselves to men that aren’t trustworthy. Yes, it is convenient to be a mind reader; I don’t know how you’re managing without it.
To use an Earth metaphor: this channeler used to do one-on-one karate sparring. An obvious move is to throw a punch, but of course, the other person often blocks it. Slightly more advanced is to throw a punch, knowing it may get blocked, and be ready with a backup, follow-up attack. However, it’s a mistake to be so focused on the backup attack that you don’t put real effort into the first punch anymore. The first punch has to be real, so that if it isn’t blocked, it really is effective.
Or in other words: Pleiadians think it’s a mistake to be too focused on “what if marriage goes wrong, what if I become unhappy, what if the other person turns out to be a monster -- what’s my backup plan then?”
The first punch -- the marriage -- has to be committed to. Being so focused on “what if it goes wrong, what’s my backup” to such an extent that you don’t give the relationship a full honest try, is a mistake from my perspective.
Still, you have been warned. Yes, us Pleiadians like sex, but we also want a family (with the right person). Now yes, some Pleiadian women are genuinely looking for no-relationships-or-babies-attached sex, but that’s certainly a minority of women.
That said, we will communicate clearly. And no one will get offended if you ask us to be match-made with a Pleiadian woman who is interested in casual sex. There’s no guarantee such a match for you will exist, but then again, maybe it will. Most Pleiadian women aren’t interested in casual sex with Earth humans, but then again, there’s a lot more Pleiadians than Earth humans out there.
And if Earth women are reading this and thinking it’s great that Pleiadians actually want to start families: yes, but Pleiadians aren’t going to have children with Earth people who still have a significant amount of inner friction themselves. Children deserve two relatively low inner friction parents.
So if an Earth woman tries to have a serious relationship with a Pleiadian man, he may ask that she work through her own stuff before having children with him (and of course, he’ll do the same, if he hasn’t already).
That sounds great on paper, but remember what I said earlier: lots of people in the spiritual community have high or at least moderate inner friction, often without realizing it. Yes, quite likely you too. It’s often an ego trap to think: “other people have high or moderate inner friction, but I don’t.”
So if you want a serious relationship with a Pleiadian, it might involve you doing a lot more personal work than you’re currently picturing, before you’re at the stage of “you’re ready to drop the inner work and just live life and start a family.” From our point of view.
Of course, some of the personal work and healing can be done while having a relationship with a Pleiadian. Relationships can be very nourishing. But they can also be more triggering than you’d expect. And we will typically give and also expect sincere effort and introspection, if you want to have children with us, because we owe that to our children.
And yes, this all sounds great on paper, until you yourself are in a situation where you think you’re more or less done with inner work, and your Pleiadian partner thinks you’re not even close. In such a situation, the Pleiadian won’t dump you if you’re sincerely moving forward and developing yourself. However, this can delay the “children” part for substantially longer than you might like.
Plus a lot of Earth humans are willing to deal with certain issues, but are completely unwilling to even acknowledge they have certain other issues, let alone work to resolve them. And yes, it’s easy to say “that’s true of other people” but there’s a decent chance this applies to you too. And if that’s the case, having more than some fun nights with Pleiadians might be hard, because ultimately Pleiadians want children, and children deserve self-actualized parents.
That said, we’ll certainly be there to help you out, to offer healing and teachings and company, to give you a place to rest, to comfort you, to slow down your aging to almost zero if you wish, to give you a listening ear and a hug, to give you all the time you need, and to make you see stars in the bedroom or on a spaceship.
You won’t have to do it alone.
You won’t have to be alone anymore.
With all my love,
Einostraee
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