Showing posts with label caretakers. Show all posts
Showing posts with label caretakers. Show all posts

Monday, September 14, 2026

Needless energy drain


Needless energy drain

Life Tapestry Creations

Channel: Brenda Hoffman

Post on 2026/09/14

 
Dear Ones,

Most of you who have transitioned likely need rest. Not because you are exhausted, but because so many who have recently decided to transition are looking for help. Many of you are supreme caretakers, so you are using much of your energy to assist those following. We of the Universes must reiterate that this is not necessary, and doing so needlessly uses up the energy you do have.

Please do not feel you are everyone’s caretaker or guardian.

Just as you had the skills and energy to transition, so do those currently transitioning. It is not your responsibility, nor is it anyone else’s. Those transitioning can do so without depending on others.

Those now transitioning are looking for the easiest and fastest way to do so, just as you did. But as you have learned, this transition is a step-by-step process, not a quick fix. Those following you will complete their transition more quickly than you did because you created a path that encouraged others to follow. That does not mean you need to stop progressing in your new world to help others. It merely means you have successfully completed your transition without assistance from other Earth beings, and the same is true for those following you.

You do not need to pull others up or slow down so they can catch up to you. Your only role now is becoming you, which is exhausting in itself. To do so, you must let go of much that you have carried internally for eons. Doing so is so tiring that you have no energy left to help those following you.

You are not cruel or even angry at the subconscious demands that those now transitioning are placing on you; you merely realize you do not have an interest in providing the shortcuts for others that drain your energy. Your only role is to follow your interests. And even if some of you believe that helping others is one of your interests, you will soon discover that doing so only delays your ability to discover yourself.

But some of you are so frightened about discovering your true self, despite being able to do so, that you stall by telling yourself you must stop to help others. Enough.

If this is your current reality, you are, in essence, holding yourself back a grade even though you are fully capable of performing the required tasks of that school year.

Ask yourself why you are so tired, and then rectify what you need to do to relax and continue evolving into new you. It is time, and you are more than capable of doing so. As will be true for the wave after wave following you, as soon as they adjust to their new skills and independence. 

So be it.
 
Brenda Hoffman
 
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Monday, April 14, 2025

Stop Worrying and Start Creating

Stop Worrying and Start Creating

Life Tapestry Creations

Channel: Brenda Hoffman

April 14, 2025

 
 
 
Dear Ones,

Even though you have crossed into the new world, you worry that nothing is right in your life or the world. 

So your inner care-taking sensations are surfacing once again.  You feel you cannot ignore everyone and live in an isolated box.  At the same time, you cannot care for everyone or even those closest to you because you are no longer a caretaker.  The indications that such is so are that you are frazzled, tired, irritable, and frightened. 

The old has to be destroyed before the new can be built.  But you are trying to keep as much of the old as possible, creating a wobbly new structure.  You fear that without 3D structures, your life will never be complete or correct.

Instead, note how rapidly your former world is falling apart, indicating something has to replace it.

Thousands of creations are yet to be formed. 

Imagine a plot of land with a decaying barn.  Every piece of the barn must be removed before a new structure can be built.  Once the land is cleared, you have innumerable choices.  A new barn, home, business, or develop the land into a forest or wildflower field.  Numerous options that were likely never envisioned before the barn decayed.  So it is now.  What no longer serves the new world needs to be removed.

Much of the stress you are experiencing is wasted energy because the new is forming within each of you.  Perhaps you will wish to build something temporary, and another wishes to create something more permanent.  Discussions ensue, and decisions will be made, not resulting from a logical mindset, but from needs within.  So, some will receive inner messages wishing to be part of this group, and others will find different areas of interest.

You are most likely thinking of group needs and activities, as was true in 3D.  Instead of activities for a few people, most 3D actions were based on the needs of a multitude.  And because two essential 3D elements were caretaking and powermongering, creations that were correct for a few most often became the model for the majority based on what the powermongers allowed or encouraged. 

This new world does not follow the same rules.  Your world is much more individualized without central sources telling you what you need or want.  So this shift is confusing and frightening for many, with thoughts of things you need being destroyed or removed. 

The destruction of the old, decayed system is frightening because you are not used to thinking outside the “group” box.

What do you need or want?  Instead of what does the 3D world need according to my intellect, powermongers, the media, or anyone or anything other than your inner voice?

In this new world, you create what you need, as will all others who have transitioned.  You will do so either individually or in small groups.  Creations that will no longer be partially right for you, but precisely what you need or wish for, with a flexibility that was never possible in 3D.  What you want or need today may be different next month or tomorrow.

This is a create-as-you-go world instead of what is right for as many people as possible, designed by someone who then tells you what you need.

Of course, this discourse is upsetting to many of you because you want someone to tell you what and when to do it. In 3D, it was much easier to fulfill a partial need through group action than it will be for you initially, because you are not used to creating what you need instead of accepting what is provided.

So you are frightened.  What if you make a mistake?  What if you create something that is not right for you?  You will do both initially.  Not because you wish to frighten yourself, but because you are a novice creator.  But with practice, you will joyfully create this and that. 

Who are you?  What do you need or want?  Why do you need or want that?  When are you going to create it?  Not when will society create it, but when will you create it?  Group thought is no longer the creation mode.  Nor is caretaking part of the equation.  That is not to indicate you will ignore or deny others their dreams, but instead, those are their dreams, not yours. 

You no longer need to delay your joy because others are not joyful or are frightened.  You no longer need to worry about others, as you observe that they are not caring for themselves but waiting for someone to care for them.  You no longer need to delay your life until others are comfortable in theirs.  You are no longer a 3D caretaker in any form.  This is a new world, and you are a new being with unlimited creation skills that you are most likely curtailing as you note the fear of others. 

Others’ pain will disappear when they realize they have the same creation skills as you and are brave enough to use them.  

Allow yourself to flow into this new world without worrying about losing this program or that idea.  Programs that are right for many, but not all. 

Create what you need when you need it, knowing that others have the same abilities if they choose to use them.  The Universes are always open to helping them, and you develop your new skills.

You are not alone, even though many of you feel you are.  This is merely the in-between stage as you transition from 3D thoughts and expectations to a fully creative new you.

So be it.
 
Brenda Hoffman
 
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