Showing posts with label conditional love. Show all posts
Showing posts with label conditional love. Show all posts

Friday, January 9, 2026

Do Not Hesitate… Do This

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Do Not Hesitate… Do This

Thymus: The Collective of Ascended Masters

Channel: Daniel Scranton

Post on January 9, 2026



Blessings. We are Thymus. We are the collective of ascended masters.

We love you unconditionally, and we suggest you do the same for yourselves. You know your own stories. You know that you’ve been hurt. You know that you’ve been traumatized. You know that you have disappointments, that you’ve made mistakes, and you know that you are starring in your own movie, which is the story of your life. You have been with yourselves in every moment of every day. Therefore, who better than you to be able to cut yourselves some slack? Why not love yourself unconditionally? Why make it hard to love yourself? What sense does that make? What pleasure or joy does that bring you?

It is true that you have grown up in a society of conditional love, and most people reserve unconditional love for their children, or their siblings, or their parents, or all of the above. Grandparents, of course, are easy to love for most people, and grandchildren as well, but everyone else typically gets conditional love. And so, growing up in a society of conditional love, you have found that it was easier for you to accept conditional love as the way, and to only give yourselves love based on the conditions that you set up for yourselves.

Now, of course, you are awake, and you want to live a more conscious life. You want to live a life of joy, freedom, abundance, creativity, peace, and everything else that goes along with living a good life, but some of you are still holding on to criteria that are necessary for you to meet before you offer yourselves love. Now, part of being awake is that you recognize that you are the love of Source Energy. And as love, of course, you must deserve love, you must be worthy of love, because you are love. But when you get caught up in the ego that compares, you can go to that place of saying, ‘Well, that person is better than me in this way and that way, and maybe when I get to their level I will be able to love myself.’

Chances are, if you do reach those levels, if you do accomplish those tasks, you will find that there is more for you to do, more for you to accomplish, and so you might still deny yourselves love. It is not something that was ever meant to be dangled at the end of a stick to motivate you to be a better version of yourself. It is important to love yourself as you are right now, especially if you want to love others unconditionally, and you want others to love you unconditionally. And so, the next time you catch yourself being hard on yourself, remember that you actually benefit more from your own love than you do self-recrimination. Being hard on yourself is not going to make you better so that you can earn that conditional love that’s being given out by most people on the planet.

It is what you are, what we all are, what Source is, and it is the best way to experience life on planet Earth. Unconditionally love all colors, all sounds, all houses, all cars. Be the love that you are in the face of whatever it is that you are standing in front of and observing. That’s true unconditional love. It doesn’t mean you have to start suddenly wallpapering your house in your least favorite color, but if you do find yourself in a room with the walls a certain color that you’ve never enjoyed, don’t throw yourself out of alignment with who you really are over that.

And when you can do that, again, it will be easier for you to love yourself unconditionally and to love everyone else unconditionally. And ultimately, you want to live on a world of unconditionally loving beings, but it has to start with you, because all you’re ever going to get out there is a reflection of what’s going on inside of you. Do not hesitate to tell yourself that you love yourself, to let go of your self-judgment, your self-hate, your self-recrimination, and feel what it feels like to just love yourself, because that’s the way you want to feel, and that’s the world you want to live in and live on.

That is all for now. We are Thymus. We are the collective of ascended masters, and we are always amongst you.
 
Daniel Scranton

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Saturday, March 8, 2025

Your Romantic Relationships

Your Romantic Relationships

The Creators (12D)

A Nonphysical Collective Consciousness

Channel: Daniel Scranton

Posted on March 8, 2025

 
 
 
 
We are here for you. We are The Creators. We are a twelfth-dimensional collective of nonphysical beings, and we are here to help. 
 
We know that you are always doing the best that you can in all areas of your lives, but especially when it comes to all of your relationships with other people. You may be hard on someone else that you are in a relationship with because you are hard on yourself and because someone else, or several people, have been hard on you. You may be doing what you think is most appropriate within a romantic relationship because it is all that you have ever had modeled to you.

When you get together with someone else in a romantic relationship, you tend to see the best of them, initially. And then as time moves forward, you tend to see all parts of them, and you feel less love within you for that person as a result. The average person will try to change their partner, to try to get their partner to see the error of their ways, so they can shape up and be that very lovable person that first emerged within the relationship for them. Now, of course, this works to varying degrees for different people, but for the most part it is the person who is asking the other to change who needs to change.

It is important for you all to see that you are that love that you want to feel and that you can generate that love within yourself and feel it no matter what the other person is doing. And when you are sending love to the other person and being love under all circumstances, then you are getting what you think you need from the other person, but you are getting it from within yourself. You see, you don’t need anyone else to change in order to experience love when looking at that person or thinking about them. You may need to shift the way you are focusing on that person. You may need to decide what to focus upon when thinking about that person, but you do not need the other person to perfect themselves so that you can then offer them your conditional love.

Many people go from relationship to relationship thinking that they will finally find ‘the one’ who is going to be everything they think they need another person to be. It is important to accept and love yourselves as you are, and it is just as important to do that for everyone else who is in your life, regardless of whether the relationship in question is a romantic one. We know that you expect a lot from your children and from your parents as well. You expect them to always be in alignment with Source and be beaming that unconditional love of Source upon you. But often they cannot because they have not been taught how to do so.

When we tell you to go within and generate the love that you truly are from inside of you, that is what we are attempting to do. We are attempting to teach you how to find the love that you truly are so that you can be it and feel it in all circumstances and around all people. And then you won’t be asking anyone else to complete you or to love you unconditionally. And that will make your life a whole lot easier and it will make your relationships a whole lot better, and you will fill yourselves up whenever you need to, because you will have practiced it, and you will have practiced it because you want to be in a loving romantic relationship with another person. Ultimately, however, you want to start having that relationship with yourself.
 
We are The Creators, and we love you very much.
 
Daniel Scranton 
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