BEING THE OWN BOSS
The Federation of Light
Channel: Blossom Goodchild
Posted on June 21, 2025
Hello. Once again, we come together to bring encouragement to carry on. There is something, well, one out of a billion somethings, that really does not make sense to me and I would like your take on it, please. A friend, age 44, who has already had cancer twice, had a horrendous car crash and literally had both hands and arms shredded and broken beyond recognition. She is the most beautiful pianist … need I say more! WHY? Why do such terrible things happen to the most amazing people … who simply do not deserve it? I feel any answer you give regarding Karma or Soul growth may infuriate me even more. For, I was surprised to feel so much anger about this. Please, help me to understand why this happens to such beautiful souls.
Welcome, Blossom. Welcome to Each One. For us to communicate with you in this way is always a pleasure and an honour, in ways of Service that we are Happy to accommodate.
Regarding the situation of your friend, we realise it will infuriate you more if we were to say ‘She chose it’.
Yep. Correct. Consider me more infuriated. She has been through enough. Why ‘on Earth’ would she choose this … on top of all her other ‘learnings’?
Blossom and Each Soul who takes into their Awareness that of which we are to say.
This Life … this choosing that Each Soul undertakes, is to experience ‘Self’ in ways that bring about profound change. This lady will come through this ordeal and find on the other side of this experience, an aspect of her Being that would not have been able to present itself if this had not taken place.
The thing is … I used to agree with all that kind of ‘understanding and reasoning’. Now … I am not so sure. Why would anyone in their right mind agree (before they came, I presume) to go through so much? Why does growth have to transpire through deep, intense suffering? Why can’t growth expand of itself through Laughter and Joy?
That is a very good question, Blossom.
Can you answer it?
If you would like to hear the answer.
Probably not, yet, try me.
Do you agree that your world is a duality concept? A world of opposites? Black/white. Up/down. Pain/Joy?
Yes.
Then KNOW that whatever one is going through, there is a counterpart of the opposite.
Why is it that some have to suffer so much more than others?
To experience the opposites that they are capable of experiencing.
The Soul you speak of is a Light Being of such capabilities. A True Warrior would you say?
Indeed. She has proved that over and over. So why would she need to now suffer once again to such a degree?
Because she knows on a Higher Level that this experience is something that will present to her opportunities that she desired to undergo.
What for?
To BE more of herself. To show others the way to overcome difficulties at all cost.
This Soul is an old Soul yet, not in ways of years in this lifetime. She has many years left to become an even Brighter Light to embrace, and assist others in ways she would not have been able to do before.
So, are you saying she ‘agreed’ for this to happen in order to help others?
That is one reason yet, not the main.
What is the main?
We cannot tell you this, for it would change her course, and it is not our business for her to do so.
Tell me , this immense suffering she is, and is going to have to experience … is she then going to experience the counterpart that will be of the most immense Joy?
Yes.
In this lifetime?
Yes.
Yet, what about many people that suffer illness for most of their lives and then leave this Earth in that same condition? Are you going to say they experience their Joy when they have left the mortal coil?
Yes, indeed.
Blossom, there is nothing by chance. You may find this difficult to accept.
Yes, I do. Some things, I would agree with on that, yet, not everything is prearranged, surely? Not everything.
There is a pathway that a Soul has chosen when they chose to return to the Earth plane.
One or many?
Many.
How many?
However many one chooses different choices!
You are here to experience anything you choose you want to experience.
I wouldn’t think the lady in question would want to experience this.
Yet, you are looking at it from a perspective that is not of the Highest One.
You see, Blossom, YOU ARE YOUR OWN BOSS.
Woa. I knew that, yet, put that way, it resonated with my Heart strings and they played a lovely tune!
From a Higher understanding of this lady’s, or anyone’s journey, certain undertakings that may not make sense to you now, have been put in place because you asked them to be in place.
I just had a flash of the next paragraph, on the lines of the man who crashed into her at 200K an hour … had agreed to do so … because she asked him … before they came here.
You are already aware of that concept, Blossom, and similar relatable scenarios.
Yes … I am. However, I am torn between ‘what neatly makes sense and gives reasoning to the insanity of Life’… or thinking … ‘Is that just a way to soothe the Soul? Is that actually the case?
What do you think, Blossom?
Truly … I don’t know! I guess the alternative being that this world is just one big mess with no reason for any of it, other than the darkness enjoying feeding off what little Light we have left! So, to choose the ‘What neatly makes sense’ option would be the Brighter, Lighter way to think?
Precisely. YOUR CHOICE.
But is it the TRUTH?
Your Choice is the TRUTH … for you!
YOUR TRUTH IS YOUR TRUTH.
JUST BECAUSE SOMEONE ELSE’S TRUTH DIFFERS, DOES NOT MEAN IT ISN’T TRUTH … BECAUSE IT IS ‘THEIR’ TRUTH … AND NO MORE ‘NOT OF A TRUTH’ TO THEM, THAN YOUR TRUTH IS TO YOU.
Blossom, let us look in more detail.
Let us ‘imagine’, yet, remaining in your Light as you do so … that the less appealing scenario WAS the TRUTH. That you are here to feed the darkness, and you keep returning in lifetimes to keep feeding the dark … and all scenarios and possibilities that would make sense to that being the TRUTH. IF you believe … think … without question or doubt, that TO BE YOUR TRUTH, because everywhere around you and all that is presented to you, with more to come … is proving that this is so, then by all means … fall into that TRUTH. Let it consume you and depress you as it will and does and will continue to do … if that is what you are choosing to feed your SOUL LIGHT with.
Go ahead if that is what you CHOOSE to be your Truth.
Now, let us imagine that the other scenario is Truth …
WHERE YOU KNOW THE LIGHT HAS WON.
You know that everything that is taking place FOR YOU, is because you are of the Divine and you asked to allow yourself to become more and more of that Divine, whilst on your Earth plane.
How could you experience the most incredible Joy, if you have not experienced the opposite? For there would be nothing to compare it with. There can be no comparison unless there is something to have allowed you to know the exact opposite of.
INSIDE … IN YOUR BEINGNESS … YOU KNOW YOU ARE LIFE’S LOVE FOR ITSELF.
YOU KNOW that you are here for a bigger reason.
You know it because you feel it.
You wouldn’t know it … if you didn’t feel it. (The opposite)
Within the undertaking … the vast undertaking of lifting the Vibration of this Planet … You accept that this opportunity also presents other opportunities, that you would not be able to experience in the same way on any other Planet, in any other Universe … within any other Galaxy, other than this tiny, minute Planet that is EARTH.
THINK OF THAT.
You were given this opportunity to experience THIS LIFE IN THIS WAY … for the benefit of yourself and all mankind.
When you FEEL the FEELING that you KNOW is your SOUL saying ‘Hello’ …
YOU KNOW LOVE.
Which path would you choose?
God, you Guys are good! So, could this lady … going back to many pathways we can choose for ourselves, due to decision making, could she have chosen a different pathway to get to where she wants to be? … who she wants to discover? … without having to go through this?
Yes. She could!
Far out. Plus … I have just received your next ‘block of thought’.
Yet, Blossom … who is to say that this what she has chosen, is not the least painless and quickest path to get to her destination.
Meaning … it could have been a lot worse?
Indeed, if she had chosen another pathway.
Yet, why would she have chosen one that was a lot worse?
She didn’t.
Yet, why would something worse be a choice in the first place?
Choices are infinite. Choosing your choices carefully comes through KNOWING what is best for you in the long run and abiding by the most proficient way to get you there.
Do you have a message for this lady?
Blossom, this entire communication is our message to her.
And indeed, all who have felt the Truth in the words we have offered today.
Thank you. As you know, I struggled to begin with and had to walk away for a little bit. I was so dismayed by yet another ‘pointless reason for another to suffer’.
Do you still feel the same?
Only if I choose to. I could change my choice of thought to KNOW THAT EVERYTHING IS INDEED, FOR A REASON. Yet, we cannot comprehend it in this density. We were not meant to … it wouldn’t ‘work’ if we did. (Don’t know how else to put that) It is interesting to juggle one’s thoughts around choices simply being a choice … whether it is True or not! I know what I mean. I hope it has come across well enough for others to know, too. Thank you … It turned out fine in the end!
And the extra Blessing is … as planned … that you connect deeply with this Soul and therefore, because of this that you do, Blossom … she is able to receive HEALING WAVES from thousands of Souls all around the world, that had she not known you, would not have happened. Nothing by chance, Blossom … Nothing by chance.
In Gratitude. In Loving Service. I AM
Ps. UPDATE : The lady was told that if she didn’t have a skin graft from her thigh, she would lose her ‘dying arm’ within a few days. She refused, as they only offered her vaccinated blood, and she cancelled her operation. What a woman! Interesting that after a long while, they came back to her with a few possible alternatives! Plus, already, a few healing miracles have happened within her personal/family situations. Keep sending her Love, please, my friends. SHE IS OPEN TO RECEIVE IT. THANK YOU SO MUCH
Blossom Goodchild
